Monday, April 1, 2013

It's complicated

I think part of the reason I have such a hard time with people who want to know whether there will ever be another wonder child is that I don't have a yes or no answer. Sometimes life isn't black and white, you know? The idea of another baby around is fun... I love holding other people's and I miss that soft warm snuggle into the neck. But I'm also glad the diaper-changing and the midnight feedings are behind me.

Would I welcome it? Sure I would. Would I seek it out? That's harder to say. The biology of my own situation makes the answer easier for me - I know I don't want to deal with the expense and the stress of the fertility assistance that would be required. But if my biology was out of the picture? I have no idea.

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